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Learning to Lead, Part II
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16. Fight the Natural Tendency to Clone Yourself
Although it is very common, it is a terrible mistake to hire people who
look, act, and think like you do. Every time you are about to make a
decision to hire someone, be brutally honest with yourself. Is this person
attractive to you because he or she brings a fresh background,
perspective, or point of view? If not, keep looking. Also, after you hire
someone, force yourself to avoid the tendency to encourage that person to
act and be like you.
17. Welcome Criticism
All leaders should fully understand that criticism and loyalty are
mutually supporting. When subordinates quit complaining that can be very
bad news. It means that they are either afraid to complain or have given
up on making things better within the organization. Both are deadly.
18. Don't Set Unreasonable Deadlines
There is an expression in the Pentagon, "If you want it bad, you will get
it bad." Try to give your folks enough time to put together a solution
that you and they can be proud of.
19. Expect Exceptional Performance
Although perfectionism in a leader can be deadly in any organization,
leaders must not let the pendulum swing too far in the other direction. If
leaders don't ask for exceptional performance from their associates, they
are not likely to get it.
20. Don't Allow Yourself to Become a Wind Chime
If your primary skill is blowing with the wind by being politically agile,
you will not be respected by those you lead. Have a backbone and exercise
your strength of character by taking strong positions on important issues.
21. Focus on Functions, Not on Form
Peter Vaill has pointed out how important it is to be clear on the job to
be done, but to be very flexible on the way to do that job. Leadership is
not a position. It is a process where leadership and followership is a
seamless web. Without followership, leadership always fails. Leaders and
followers determine each others' success. Today you lead, tomorrow you
follow, and vice versa.
22. Fight the Temptation to Get Even
If someone does something to you that is mean spirited, think of it as his
or her problem not your problem. Trying to get even seldom works, lacks
dignity, and makes you look petty and mean spirited. You can never get
ahead by getting even.
23. Focus on Goals Not Process
It is important to be clear about the job to be done but to be very
flexible about the way you do the job.
24. Be a Blame Acceptor
If something goes wrong within the organization that you lead, you must be
willing to accept the blame even though you personally may be only a tiny
part of the failure. Too many bosses try to blame others, especially their
subordinates. By doing so, they often lose the respect of their people and
their bosses.
25. Establish Self-Reinforcing Relationships
Praise and support those who can move smoothly from competition to
cooperation. Encourage those who find solutions that reconcile the
opposites. The French have it right in their national motto - "liberty,
equality, and fraternity."
26. Network Constantly
Every day do some networking, expand your braintrust, seek out creative
and imaginative ideas. Exercise your curiosity and curiosity of your
subordinates.
27. Don't Be a Perfectionist
Leaders tend to drive their associates crazy when they are unwilling to
accept very good but not perfect solutions to tough problems. Leaders must
understand that perfection is seldom possible and that in many cases "the
perfect is the enemy of the good."
28. Find an Anchor and Hold on to It in the Tough Times
I have been blessed with a number of wonderful anchors. My wife of more
than 42 years has lifted me up when I was down and eased me down when I
was sky high. My two adult children have been very helpful, especially
when I was dealing with issues of integrity. A few other close friends
have helped so many times when I was in great need of advice, comfort,
solace, or support.
29. Leverage Opportunities
The best leaders leverage their time, their talents, their technology, and
their friends. In fact, if you use leverage, many things you do will
become easier and quicker. Let me give two personal examples. I am a
terrible typist, but I have a fast computer that allows me to crank out
written material quickly. Also, I am blessed with the talent of speed
reading. It has allowed me to get through my "in-box" quickly and get out
with the troops as well as maintain a regular reading program of about
four books per month.
30. Be a Servant Leader
Too many leaders serve their ambitions or their egos rather than their
people. As I reflect on the marvelous leadership opportunities I have
enjoyed, I realize that I spent most of my time serving the people who
worked for me. Whenever they reached out to me for assistance, I tried to
help them.
A retired major general, Perry M. Smith served for 30 years in the U.
S. Air Force. During his career he had a number of leadership experiences,
including command of the F-15 wing at Bitburg, Germany where he provided
leadership to 4000 personnel. Later, he served as the top Air Force
planner and as the Commandant of the National War College, where he taught
courses on leadership of large organizations and on strategic planning.
He is the author of the book Rules and Tools
for Leaders and is currently the President of Visionary Leadership
in Augusta, Georgia.
The Marine Corps Gazette
©2001.
